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The Friendly Fairway
August 1, 2011
The Friendly Fairway Early in my exploration of this subject with Golf Professionals I had the opportunity to discuss what I was doing with a particular teaching professional. We shall call him Dave. Dave was interested to find out what I was doing and was willing to give some of his time to help me. I, in turn, wanted to find out from him what he did on the golf course and in practise which was different from those who do not achieve high performance and similar to those who do achieve it. The meeting went well and I explained to Dave that I was interested in what high performers did in their minds that helped them to play good golf. Now, often when I explain this to people for the first time they initially think of what I do as course management i.e. where to hit the ball and what club to use etc. The reaction this time was similar and I went on to explain to Dave that what I was really interested in was mind management. I wanted to know what he did in his head before, during and after a shot which allowed him to execute such a high percentage of accurate shots. Many top performers are highly aware of the rituals and routines that they carry out on a conscious level and yet not so obvious are the subconscious patterns that they use. Dave explained as many have that he looks to see where he wants to hit his next shot taking into account trouble spots and distances and specifically pointed out that he wanted his shot to finish in a place which made his next shot easiest. He told me about the activity that made up his pre-shot routine explaining how he was trying to relax himself and get into the right mindset to hit his shot. Now, these are the things we hear and read about regularly as golf tips in magazines and books but they are what I call ‘surface structure’. They are the things we are consciously aware of and do in order to try and get ourselves into the right frame of mind. What I was interested in was the ‘deep structure’ that he was using that allowed his mind to find the shot he needed. I asked him to bear with me for a moment and to “remember a time when you hit a shot that you hit just right and landed and rolled to where you wanted it to?”. When he nodded to tell me he had one in mind I asked him to “make a picture of that shot”; “See yourself going through your pre-shot routine all the way to when you are standing over the ball ready to hit it”. Dave nodded to indicate that he was there. “Now, what I want you to do…” I said, “…is to answer this question. How do you know when to hit the ball?”. Dave looked at me as if I was asking him a ridiculous question and answered “I don’t know. I suppose it just feels right.” Now, I have had enough experience to know by now that when someone says they “don’t know” then they are on the boundary of conscious thought and about to go inside and get the key driver for their performance. This is a critical moment because if you manage to get them to look inside then it is like pulling back the stone on Aladdin’s cave but if they fall back on the wrong side of “don’t know” then the information is left locked inside. We’ve all seen ravenous wolves on the TV or in films if not in real life and when they find the food they have been craving they drool uncontrollably at the anticipation of what is to come. I find myself in times like these described above in many ways similar to the hungry wolf (although I am most often able to control the drooling). “Dave”, I said, calmly. “Just before you don’t know, when you look at the picture you are making, what is it that you see that tells you that it is the right time to hit the ball?” Now, the most surprising things happen when people go inside and find their deep structure. It does surprise me time after time that when someone becomes aware of their subconscious thoughts they take it for granted that you would already know what they had omitted to explain. “When you look at the picture what is it that changes that tells you it is the right time to hit the ball?” I repeated. “Oh that. Well, that’s easy” says Dave, “the fairway becomes friendly” and he looked at me again as if I was supposed to know what that meant. You see, what many people are unaware of is that inside our own minds we have a whole world of thoughts which we take for granted that others have, but which are unique to the individual and no-one else. “In what way does the fairway become friendly?” I asked. “Well, the colours become softer, smoother and more friendly looking to the eye and the fairway changes shape going concave like a valley and you just know that if the ball was to go off line it would hit the bank and come straight back into the centre of the fairway” he announced easily. “Okay. So now the colours are becoming softer and the fairway is changing shape…” I reminded him “how do you know when they have changed enough for it to be the right time to hit the ball?”. Dave looked straight in front of him and then a smile covered his face, “At some point the fairway gets so friendly that I get a feeling of contentment come all over me starting from my head and going down to my toes and when it reaches my toes I hit the ball.” “The great thing is that when I hit that ball I hit it without a care in the world”. What Dave was doing isn’t something difficult or weird. He was using his mind and the patterns that his mind works to create the environment necessary for him to perform well. I give you this as an example not so that you will all to a man or woman go off and copy it but so that when you begin to see what makes you hit a good shot or a bad shot you can relate to it as something normal to the human race and not something to be dismissed. I have been amazed at the many different ways that people create in their minds to make sense of the world that they live in and the often outstandingly simple ways that we power up our performance by using our imagination to stimulate our chemical nervous system. You can see other examples when you read the Deep Impact Golf book and these range from the pint sized Tiger Woods or the Humpalumpas of Charlie’s Chocolate Factory to the whispering cup amongst many others. What do you do in your head before hitting a poor shot and more interestingly what do you do in your head before hitting a great shot?
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